Blogging
I am not a “natural” or “gifted” writer. I would have never thought a blog, website, or social media page being created would be on my agenda. I certainly did not have the plan to be staying home full-time while writing about Jesus, my marriage, and my beautiful family. All of these changes can come with mixed feelings and struggles. The blogging world is different, and I have to say I am learning something new each day. I appreciate where God has me right now. He has allowed me to have a space where I can glorify Him and share all the wonderful things He is doing.
Negative Thoughts and Feelings
My plans, desires, and thoughts do not always pan out the way I envision. I am pretty sure I am not the only one. I feel as though writing can take its toll BUT I have to say it has its positives, especially when the niche is about family (something so dear to me) and the Lord. I often feel you have to use fancy words and be the author of many books to be a blogger. I feel people are not reading after you work so hard to plan and write. Yet, I have to remember what this is all about right? I have to take a step back and remember the purpose. Some things are so uncomfortable especially when you are called to step out into faith and to be raw and open about things that can help others. Combating these feelings and thoughts lately with God’s word and prayer. Opening up to someone who you trust, for me that is my husband, and let them know.
What is the purpose?
As I mentioned above, I know the purpose of this blog. I understand that this is about life and how we navigate and live according to the way we are called to reside in a hurting world. I know this blog is here to share my faith, struggles, family stories, raising children, and being a mother and wife. This blog is about marriage and how we navigate and handle the things of life. Remember the purpose. Reflect on the purpose. Pray and seek what God’s word say.
What to do when you do not feel good enough:
- Prayer. It is so important. I will keep repeating myself on this. You do not have to speak to the Lord with “fancy lingo” just talk and pour out your heart. I am learning to lean on Jesus more and more when I feel defeated and not good enough in this area.
- Take a step back. Sometimes a break from something that may stress you out is refreshing and all you need. It is similar to work, you get leave and days off and it is so imperative to use those days.
- Reading the Bible: Open up the Bible and find everyone who struggled with what you are going through. People are in there. Trust me you will find many you can relate to. I have been studying the Old Testament: David & Saul, and Hannah.
- Speak to a trusted person. Always discuss your feelings with someone you trust. Why not? I think it is so healthy and it helps.
- Stop comparing. This is HUGE. Comparison is not good. I strongly believe this is a tool Satan uses a lot. I find myself sometimes wondering how I can write better but fall into the trap of comparing myself to the TOP bestselling author. Why. It will never help but only hurt and this is for everything. Do not compare. I have to check myself and remind myself this is not the way to go.
- Be kind to yourself. We can be so hard on ourselves and others. Kindness goes a long way!
Realization behind writing a blog
Some days you want to just give up. Quit. Maybe take a long break knowing if you do that you probably will not return. Some days you want to “push forward” so you can avoid the tough, difficult crap that comes along with the “business” of writing. However, the only way I see to get through this is by staying close to Jesus. I am trusting Him with my writing and where He wants to take it. I want Him to guide me on every post. Maybe this is for a season or not, but I do know it is all for Him. I must trust God. You may not be able to relate in blogging or writing, but maybe something else you are struggling with.
Proverbs 3:5-6, NKJV
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths”.
Proverbs 2:3-6, NKJV
” Yes, if you cry out for discernment, and lift up your voice for understanding, If you seek her as silver, And search for her as for hidden treasures; Then you will understand the fear of the Lord, And find the knowledge of God. For the Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding;”….
Be sure to check out a few other articles:
https://bibleandcake.com/when-you-feel-like-quitting/
https://bibleandcake.com/making-plans-is-god-involved-in-them/
https://bibleandcake.com/hello/
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****Disclaimer****- This post is not directed towards any issues or concerns with mental illness and/or health. I am NOT a physician and/or therapist, or counselor. Please consult a physician if you feel depressed and/or worried about your mental health.
